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Perimenopause & Menopause Mental Health Care

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As estrogen shifts in perimenopause and menopause, many women notice changes they didn't expect: new anxiety, irritability, tearfulness, a short fuse, trouble finding words, or a fog that makes it hard to concentrate. It's real, it's common, and it's treatable.

A wooden roller coaster against a blue sky, like the ups and downs of perimenopause
  • Anxiety & mood swings
  • Brain fog & memory
  • Coordination with your GYN
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Cognitive and mood changes related to perimenopause and menopause are one of my specialties. I help you sort out what's hormonal, what's mood, what might be ADHD becoming more visible, and what to do about each.

Changes many women notice

  • New or worsening anxiety and feeling overwhelmed
  • Irritability and sudden mood swings
  • Depressive symptoms or loss of joy
  • Short-term memory lapses and word-finding trouble
  • Difficulty concentrating, or “brain fog”
  • Night sweats and broken sleep that make everything harder
  • Irregular periods and hot flashes
  • Feeling unlike yourself

Cognitive changes

  • Memory

    Many women report trouble with short-term memory and focus, made worse by the sleep disruption that's so common in this stage.

  • Concentration

    Fluctuating estrogen affects cognitive function, so tasks that were easy can suddenly take more effort.

  • Brain fog

    Feelings of confusion and difficulty processing thoughts. It's an expected part of the transition, not a sign that something is wrong with you.

Mood and anxiety changes

  • Increased anxiety

    Hormonal shifts can heighten anxiety, leaving you more overwhelmed by day-to-day life. Some women have their first panic attacks in this stage.

  • Mood swings

    Fluctuating hormones can cause emotional instability, irritability or sudden changes in mood.

  • Depression

    Some women experience depression, which can be intensified by life changes, physical health issues or a prior history of depression.

Where hormones fit

A second look at the Women's Health Initiative study, the 2002 trial that led to a sharp decline in hormone therapy, has produced a much more nuanced understanding. Experts now recognize that hormone therapy, including bioidentical estradiol and progesterone, may be safe and effective for many women, and it can ease the hot flashes, sleep disruption and mood and cognitive changes that come with this transition.

I'm excited about this re-emergence of hormonal treatment, and I'll talk with you about whether it might be part of your plan, coordinating with your gynecologist or a Menopause Society certified practitioner. Alongside that, I treat the anxiety, depression and cognitive symptoms directly with therapy and, when helpful, medication.

Physical changes

Perimenopause can also bring irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, weight and body composition changes, bone density loss, changes in skin and hair, and genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM), which affects vaginal, urinary and sexual health. These changes affect how you feel emotionally, so they're part of our conversation too.

Bioidentical hormone replacement restores quality of life for women who have been impacted by dramatic increases in anxiety, mood changes, and cognitive changes.
Denise Owen-FabriciusMSN, APN, PMHNP-BC

FAQ

Frequently asked questionsPerimenopause & Menopause

Can perimenopause cause anxiety even if I've never had it before?

Yes. New-onset anxiety, panic and irritability are common in perimenopause because estrogen influences the brain chemicals that regulate mood and stress.

Is it brain fog or ADHD?

It can be either, or both. Estrogen affects dopamine, so women with ADHD often find symptoms intensify in perimenopause. A careful history helps tell them apart.

Do you prescribe hormone therapy?

My focus is the mood, anxiety and cognitive side. We'll talk about whether hormone therapy might help, and I coordinate with your GYN or a menopause-certified practitioner on that piece. Menopause.org lists certified providers.

How old are women when perimenopause starts?

Usually in the 40s, though it can begin in the late 30s. It lasts several years on average before periods stop for 12 months, which marks menopause.

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